Just like children and teenagers, getting husbands to cooperate enthusiastically during family photo sessions can sometimes require a bit of motivation… maybe even A LOT of motivation (if we’re being fully transparent). A past client told me her go to move is telling her husband she’s doing photos with or without him so it’s his choice. But I know, when you want those sweet full family photos, it can be extremely frustrating if the hubs outright refuses to participate in those updated family photos. Here are some activity incentive ideas tailored specifically to appeal to husbands after they’ve done their part in capturing those cherished family moments:
Outdoor Adventure
After a twenty to thirty (or possibly more) minutes spent smiling for the camera, what better way to unwind than with an outdoor adventure? Plan a hiking trip to a nearby scenic spot where you can enjoy nature and explore together as a family. Bring along a picnic lunch filled with his and the kids’ favorite snacks to make the outing even more enjoyable.
Brewery or Distillery Tour
For the husband who appreciates a good brew or spirits, consider treating him to a brewery or distillery tour. Many places offer guided tours where you can learn about the brewing process and sample different beverages. Even if a tour isn’t his thing, it’s a great way to relax and celebrate after a successful photo session. Add on dinner at your favorite restaurant to sweeten the date night for you both.
Home Improvement Project
This may sound counterintuitive fi the objective is a relaxing incentive for your husband to cooperate for family photos. However, if your husband considers himself quite the handyman, consider starting a home improvement project together after the photo session. Whether it’s painting a room, building a cornhole set, or tackling a garden project, it can be a productive and satisfying way to spend time together while you await your final images.
Golf Outing
The tried-and-true option for most husbands is the time to hit the golf course for a leisurely 18 holes. Creating time for him to partake in one of his favorite pastimes is a wonderful way to say thank you for joining in the family photo session and helping wrangle the kiddos while the camera clicks away photo after photo.
These are just a few activities designed to appeal to a variety of interests and personalities, ensuring your husband feels appreciated and rewarded for his cooperation during the family photo session. By planning something he enjoys, you not only create fond memories but also reinforce the positive experience of capturing those precious family moments. Ready to schedule your next family photo session? Contact me to discuss your ideas and let’s plan an unforgettable day for your family!
